Anyone else feel weirdly lonely some evenings here? (not a sad post, promise)
# 心のつながり 👁 556♥ 28💬 10
Four years in Japan, stable job, I'm 'fine' — but some evenings the quiet really hits, especially when family back home feels far away.
Not looking for sympathy, more curious: how do you all deal with the occasional homesick/lonely evening?
・hobbies / clubs that actually let you meet people
・apps or communities
・just calling home
I feel like a lot of us go through this but nobody says it out loud. Drop a line if you relate — maybe we make this thread a little corner for that 🤝
Tham gia thảo luận bằng ngôn ngữ của bạn
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James K
★ Best 2026-06-09 · ♥ 14
Thanks for saying it out loud — more of us feel this than admit it. What helped me: a weekly hobby with a fixed time (bouldering gym), so I'm 'forced' to see the same faces. Routine beats willpower.
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Gabriel
2026-06-04 · ♥ 13
Thanks for posting this. It took me two years to even admit I felt this way. You're not alone, friend — not here.
이 글 보고 위로받았어요. 다들 비슷하구나 싶어서… 가끔 동네 산책하면서 좋아하는 노래 듣는 게 제 작은 처방이에요🌙
この投稿、深夜に読んで泣きそうになった。わかるよ。一人の夜って、急にくるよね。
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Fatima
2026-06-10 · ♥ 8
Reading this a year later and it still helps. You're never as alone as it feels at 2am. This whole thread is proof of that.
Mình cũng vậy. Nhưng từ khi tìm thấy cộng đồng này thì đỡ hơn nhiều. Cảm giác ai đó đâu đó cũng đang cùng tâm trạng với mình.
夜の孤独、季節関係なくふっと来ますよね。このスレ今読んでも刺さる。みんなどこかで同じ気持ち。
Mình cũng hay vậy, nhất là buổi tối. Gọi về nhà 10 phút thôi cũng ấm lòng hẳn. Cảm ơn bạn đã mở thread này 🤍
留学生一个人住,晚上最难熬。看了这个帖子,觉得『原来不只我一个』,心里好受多了。
This thread is so wholesome. 夜の孤独、わかります。自分は寝る前に好きなポッドキャスト流すのが小さな処方箋。みんなで支え合えるの良いですね🌙