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I've been in Japan for 20 years and it's the first time I didn't call my mom because she passed away.

今年的母亲节是我人生第一次「无电话可打」。妈妈去年冬天走了,这是新常态的第一个母亲节。 早上起来手机翻到「母亲」联系人,愣了 1 分钟。 在日本 20 年,

2026-05-11👁 163💬 7♥ 0

The Mother's Day morning rush at the supermarket, with the carnation section packed like hell.

今朝 8 時に新宿のサミットに寄ったら、入口から赤い波. カーネーション、鉢植え、トマト形のメッセージカード…全部レジ前に山積み. 5 分で買えると思って入っ

2026-05-11👁 116💬 5♥ 0

Is the restaurant open as usual next week on Children's Day (May 5)?

한식당 매니저인데, 어린이날 다음주는 손님 동향이 매년 다릅니다. 작년 5월 2주차는 매출 30% 감소 (가족들이 어린이날에 다 써서). 올해

2026-05-11👁 44💬 4♥ 0

Missing you during Mother's Day — Mom is in Brazil, and I've been here for 8 years.

Amanhã é Dia das Mães no Japão, e em duas semanas é no Brasil. A cada ano fica

2026-05-11👁 38💬 5♥ 0

Homemade Mother's Day dinner ideas: recipes to make with your kids.

横浜ママ目線で。明日5/10 (土) は母の日前夜の準備日。 うちの子 7 歳と 4 歳と一緒に作ろうと思ってるメニュー: - ハンバーグ (子供と捏ねる)

2026-05-10👁 181💬 5♥ 0

[Sunday, May 24] Kansai Chinese Gathering (Osaka Tennoji) — Pre-registration for sign-up

我做不动产 12 年,在关西华人圈算「老炮」了。 5/24 (周日) 中午 12:00 想在天王寺一家本地中餐馆办个非正式聚会,目标 15-20 人。 面向

2026-05-10👁 153💬 8♥ 0

Looking for a reasonable-priced service to send Mother's Day gifts from Japan to Thailand.

วันแม่ไทย 12 สิงหา ยังไกล แต่ผมจะกลับไทยพอดี ก็เลยอยากซื้อของฝากแม่ที่ Chiba ไอ

2026-05-10👁 161💬 5♥ 0

If I'm missing one month of National Pension payments, will it affect my visa renewal?

Mình thực tập 特定技能 2 ở Utsunomiya. Tháng 2 chuyển công ty quên báo 役所, 国民年金 1 th

2026-05-09👁 139💬 6♥ 0

For Mother's Day on May 11, I want to send a gift to my mom in China. What's reliable to buy in Japan?

我博士在读神戸,妈妈在沈阳。 之前寄过日本化妆品(SK2、资生堂),妈妈说「太贵不舍得用,你别再寄」。这次想换思路。 初步考虑: - 日本本地的小物(扇子/

2026-05-09👁 48💬 7♥ 0

Spring job hunting in Tokyo — Chuo Line vs. Yamanote Line, which side is better?

Coaching foreign engineers for years and the commute question never stops. If y

2026-05-09👁 13💬 5♥ 0

How to handle nervous stuttering during spring job interviews (from an internal medicine doctor's perspective).

门诊里最近 3 位中国患者来看「面试前心悸/胃痛」,都是 25-30 岁找工作的同胞。 医学上这是「予期不安」(anticipatory anxiety),不

2026-05-08👁 67💬 8♥ 0

What did you send to your Korean parents for Parents' Day (May 8) while in Osaka?

오늘이 한국 어버이날인데 오사카에서 일하느라 한국에 못 가요. 작년엔 일본 화과자 박스 보냈는데 부모님이 "맛은 좋은데 양이 적다" 하셔서 올

2026-05-08👁 147💬 6♥ 0

How I overcame post-Golden Week fatigue — 3 practical tips.

GW xong là người mình rã rời. Năm nay mình thử 3 cách và thấy hiệu quả: 1. Sáng

2026-05-08👁 34💬 6♥ 0

Cafes and coworking spaces in Shinjuku where you can work remotely even after Golden Week ends.

行政書士の仕事柄、外回りの合間にカフェで集中したいことが多いです。 GW 明け、客先のあいだの2-3時間で書類仕上げる用に、新宿で見つけた候補: - 茶碗一杯

2026-05-07👁 106💬 5♥ 0

Living in Japan for 20 years: This "everyone looks like zombies" feeling returns every year right after Golden Week.

今天早上福冈办公室来 10 个人,8 个人讲话像还没醒。 在日 20 年我发现这事跟「日本职场过度积累」有关:GW 之前要把所有事赶完,GW 中要彻底放空,G

2026-05-07👁 76💬 8♥ 0

Went to 7-Eleven this morning on May 7 and saw they still have summer oden?

Mình vừa ghé 7-Eleven gần nhà ở Kanazawa lúc 7 sáng. Cạnh quầy thanh toán vẫn có

2026-05-08👁 97💬 8♥ 0

A Japanese person apologized three times when I bumped into them — a true story in Shibuya.

Hôm qua đi Shibuya tan tầm. Mình vô tình va nhẹ vào ông cụ ~70 tuổi ở scramble c

2026-05-05👁 140💬 2♥ 0

Honestly: Even after being married to a Japanese man for five years, I still feel exhausted when visiting his family home.

Mình lấy chồng người Nhật, chồng tốt với mình. Đã có 1 con 2 tuổi. Mỗi lần về n

2026-05-07👁 164💬 7♥ 0

Secret: What is the current salary of a construction trainee in their fourth year in Japan?

Mình tò mò vì công ty không cho phép bàn lương với đồng nghiệp. Xin các anh chị

2026-05-08👁 135💬 4♥ 0

Considering permanent return to Korea, but my resolve is wavering after six years in Japan.

일본 千葉에서 6년째 일하고 있어요. 저축 1500만엔 정도 했고 부모님 연세도 늘어나서 한국 영주귀국이 자꾸 머리에 떠올라요. 근데 한국에서

2026-05-05👁 187💬 7♥ 0